Sunday, 1 March 2015

Leonard Nimoy, Spock of ‘Star Trek,’ Dies at 83 - NYTimes.com

http://mobile.nytimes.com/2015/02/27/arts/television/leonard-nimoy-spock-of-star-trek-dies-at-83.html?referrer=&_r=1

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What ISIS Really Wants - The Atlantic

«The Islamic State is no mere collection of psychopaths. It is a religious group with carefully considered beliefs, among them that it is a key agent of the coming apocalypse. Here's what that means for its strategy—and for how to stop it.»
By Graeme Wood
MARCH 2015
http://www.theatlantic.com/features/archive/2015/02/what-isis-really-wants/384980/


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Saturday, 28 February 2015

Mussar: Balancing Accountability with Compassion

The Act of Rigorous Forgiving --
by  David Brooks in The New York Times Opinion Pages--2/10/15
All Rights Reserved
There's something sad in Brian Williams's need to puff up his Iraq adventures and something barbaric in the public response.

The sad part is the reminder that no matter how high you go in life and no matter how many accolades you win, it's never enough. The desire for even more admiration races ahead. Career success never really satisfies. Public love always leaves you hungry. Even very famous people can do self-destructive things in an attempt to seem just a little cooler.

The barbaric part is the way we respond to scandal these days. When somebody violates a public trust, we try to purge and ostracize him. A sort of coliseum culture takes over, leaving no place for mercy. By now, the script is familiar: Some famous person does something wrong. The Internet, the most impersonal of mediums, erupts with contempt and mockery. The offender issues a paltry half-apology, which only inflames the public more. The pounding cry for resignation builds until capitulation comes. Public passion is spent and the spotlight moves on.
I've only spoken with Williams a few times, and can't really speak about the man (though I often appear on NBC News's "Meet the Press"), but I do think we'd all be better off if we reacted to these sorts of scandals in a different way. The civic fabric would be stronger if, instead of trying to sever relationships with those who have done wrong, we tried to repair them, if we tried forgiveness instead of exiling.

Forgiveness is often spoken of in sentimental terms — as gushy absolution for everything, regardless of right or wrong. But many writers — ranging from Hannah Arendt and the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. to modern figures like Jeffrie Murphy and L. Gregory Jones — have tried to think hard about rigorous forgiveness, which balances accountability with compassion.

They've generally described four different processes involved in forgiveness:

Pre-emptive mercy. Martin Luther King Jr. argued that forgiveness isn't an act; it's an attitude. We are all sinners. We expect sin, empathize with sin and are slow to think ourselves superior. The forgiving person is strong enough to display anger and resentment toward the person who has wronged her, but she is also strong enough to give away that anger and resentment.

In this view, the forgiving person makes the first move, even before the offender has asked. She resists the natural urge for vengeance. Instead, she creates a welcoming context in which the offender can confess.

Judgment. A wrong is an occasion to re-evaluate. What is the character of the person in question? Should a period of stupidity eclipse a record of decency?

It's also an occasion to investigate each unique circumstance, the nature of each sin that was committed and the implied remedy to that sin. Some sins, like anger and lust, are like wild beasts. They have to be fought through habits of restraint. Some sins like bigotry are like stains. They can only be expunged by apology and cleansing. Some like stealing are like a debt. They can only be rectified by repaying. Some, like adultery, are more like treason than like crime; they can only be rectified by slowly reweaving relationships. Some sins like vanity — Williams's sin — can only be treated by extreme self-abasement.

During the judgment phase, hard questions have to be asked so that in forgiving we don't lower our standards.

Confession and Penitence. At some point the offender has to get out in front of the process, being more self-critical than anyone else around him. He has to probe down to the root of his error, offer a confession more complete than expected. He has to put public reputation and career on the back burner and come up with a course that will move him toward his own emotional and spiritual recovery, to become strongest in the weakest places.

Reconciliation and re-trust. After judgments have been made and penitence performed, both the offender and offended bend toward each other. As Martin Luther King Jr. said, trust doesn't have to be immediate, but the wrong act is no longer a barrier to a relationship. The offender endures his season of shame and is better for it. The offended are free from mean emotions like vengeance and are uplifted when they offer kindness. The social fabric is repaired. Community solidarity is strengthened by the reunion.

I guess I think Brian Williams shouldn't have to resign, for the reason David Carr emphasized in The Times: Williams's transgressions were not part of his primary job responsibilities. And because I think good people are stronger when given second chances.

But the larger question is how we build community in the face of scandal. Do we exile the offender or heal the relationship? Would you rather become the sort of person who excludes, or one who offers tough but healing love?
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RRW

Friday, 27 February 2015

Achdut in Teaneck!

The Jewish Link of New Jersey:

An amazing example of achdus and support for our neighbors. Kol hakavod to the members of Congregation Beth Aaron and the Jewish Center of Teaneck.

http://jewishlinknj.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=7127%3Abeth-aaron-sanctuary-floods-teaneck-jewish-center-hosts-davening&catid=151%3Acommunity-news&Itemid=584
Teaneck—At approximately 2 p.m. last Erev Shabbos, a pipe burst in the main sanctuary of Congregation Beth Aaron on Queen Anne Road and caused significant damage, rendering the shul uninhabitable for Shabbos. As the sun began to set, and it came time to light candles, many members wondered if the sh…

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Thursday, 26 February 2015

After loss of US award, PA governor reiterates esteem for terrorists - PMW Bulletins

http://palwatch.org/main.aspx?fi=157&doc_id=14127

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When a Black German woman discovered her grandfather was a Nazi

«Indeed, it was not until years later that Teege, a German-born black woman who was given up for adoption as a child, discovered that one of the central characters in the film, Amon Goeth, was her grandfather. Many viewers recall the figure of Goeth, the brutal commander of the Plaszow concentration camp in Poland – played in the film by Ralph Fiennes – from the scenes in which he shoots Jewish inmates from the porch of his home. But Teege, who had not been in touch with either her biological mother or biological grandmother for years, had no idea about the identity of her grandfather.

The discovery came like a bolt from the blue in the summer of 2008, when she was 38 years old, as she relates in the memoir "Amon," which was published in German in 2013 (co-authored with the German journalist Nikola Sellmair), and is due out in English this April under the title "My Grandfather Would Have Shot Me: A Black Woman Discovers Her Family's Nazi Past."»
When a black German woman discovered her grandfather was the Nazi villain of 'Schindler's List' - Jewish World Features - Israel News | Haaretz
http://www.haaretz.com/mobile/1.640997


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Wednesday, 25 February 2015

Nishma-Parshah: Tetzaveh and Parshat Zachor

Take a look at what's on
for Parshat Tetzaveh and Parshat Zachor

Tetzaveh: One Action; Opposite Meanings
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2015/02/tetzaveh-one-action-opposite-meanings.html

Parsha: Tetzaveh, "Sh'qalim and Zachor"
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2015/02/parsha-tetzaveh-shqalim-and-zachor.html

Parshat Zachor: Choice in Destruction
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/parshat-zachor-choice-in-destruction.html

Re: Is Parshat Zachor d'Oraitto? - 2
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/re-is-parshat-zachor-doraitto-2.html

Is Parshat Zachor d'Oraitto? - 1
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/is-parshat-zachor-doraitto-1.html

Leining: Is it zeikher or zekher?
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/leining-is-it-zeikher-or-zekher.html

Zachor: Zeicher vs. Zecher 5
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/zachor-zeicher-vs-zecher-5.html

Zachor: Zeicher vs. Zecher 4
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/zachor-zeicher-vs-zecher-4.html

Zachor: Zeicher vs. Zecher 3
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/zachor-zeicher-vs-zecher-3.html

Zachor: Zeicher vs. Zecher 2
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/zachor-zeicher-vs-zecher-2.html

Zachor: Zeicher vs. Zecher 1
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/zachor-zeicher-vs-zecher-1.html

Parshah Ki Teitzie 9/11, Amaleik, Honesty and Anti-Semitism
http://nishma-parshah.blogspot.ca/2014/03/parshah-ki-teitzie-911-amaleik-honesty.html

 

Mitchell First: Esther Unmasked

Exploring mysteries - The Jewish Standard
http://jstandard.com/index.php/content/item/32540/
«According to Teaneck's [Beth Aaron's] Mitchell First, Queen Esther and King Achashverosh can be identified with the Queen Amestris and King Xerxes Greek historians have mentioned.

How he reaches this conclusion is outlined in his newest book, "Esther Unmasked: Solving Eleven Mysteries of the Jewish Holidays and Liturgy," published by Kodesh Press, released this week just in time for the annual Yeshiva University book sale that continues through February 23.»
Kol Tuv,
RRW