"I cannot STAND rabbi X. He always uses Ad Hominem atacks. How can I take him seriously!?Dear Readers,
I hope you sense the irony and self-contradictory nature of the above statement! Regardless of your reaction [or perhaps lack thereof!] Rabbi Hecht and I have both agreed to eschew Ad Hominem attacks. We feel this policy serves this BLOG better.
Why?
Why?
- We avoid personalizing attacks in order to focus upon the issue at hand
- Furthermore, many of us are potnetially guilty of the behavior in question
- Finaly, as Bruria has taught us: "Learn to HATE the sin and to LOVE the sinner."
Illustrations:
I had a rebbe in yeshiva who would attack many of the Modern professors at YU. his attacks were sharp, entertaining, and informative. The Targets seemed pretty clear to the entire calss, nevertheless - in order to remove any doubt about his intentions - I confronted my rebbe privately after Shiur.
RRW: So what is with Professor X. Is he a kosher Jew or what?
My Rebbe [MR]: Well he keeps Shabbes, puts on Tefilin keeps Kosher, etc.
After a few back and forths, I realized that my MR would attack this professor all day long in his Shi'ur but not smean to make it personally against the man. Later on, I would discover that perhaps he meant not to attack the professor per se, just his teachings. That he really did like the guy, but was eschewing hes methodology alone!
Fast Forward Many years Later
I was reading Artrscrolls' biography of R. Baruch Ber Lebowitz. [FWIW, he was acquainted with MR above]. In this book R. Baruch Ber is described as having lashed out at many secularists and Maskillim whom he felt were damaging Judaism during his era. Nevertheless, he refrained from naming names. Why? He was ttacking their behaviro not their persona.
Rav Shcwab ZTL reputedly attacked a certain behavior. When confronted by a congregant re: the intended target of his article, he coyly responded: "If the shoe fits -wear it." Rav Schwab was out to make a point about something he opposed. He did not mean it to get personal, and certainly not ersonal in th PUBLIC domain.
As a personal pPolicy I have avoided politics from the pulpit. Why? As Spiritual Leader I feel that it dilutes my message as spiritual leader to get involved with politics. I didmake an exception when an obvious anti-Semite ran for City Council and I recommended that he be opposed for that very specific reason. As I see it [AISI] making only 1 exception in 16 year enhanced my "moral authority."
Simlarly, when the shenaigans of a recent Presdient of the USA who engaged in questionable moral conduct became the rage, I described in very general terms what was wrong and why it should be condemned. I named no names and just referred to a political leader who was involved in mis-behavior with an intern . Although it was quite obvious to whom I was referring, I avoided naming names.
I feel that personalizing the attack by naming names dilutes the message. And frankly, I am not sure if the aforementioned politician behaved significantly worse than many of his colleagues. Instead I attacked this overall lack of morality but kept his name out of it. Furthermore - other than this mis-behavior - I really had no personal animus to the guy, and there were probably other politicians that I liked even better who may have even done worse. So why go into name calling?!
OTOH, I ccannot condone the behavior. To my mind, it was to me clearly reprehensible and that a statement was called for. I framed it to be more as a teaching rather than preaching by pointing out a moral lesson in that Parsha that was on topic. By presenting the Torah point of view first, and then following up with a tangential reference to the behavior, I feel that I got my point accross without making it into a personal attack. Personal attacks carry with them an animus that I feel undermines the message.
Rav Shcwab ZTL reputedly attacked a certain behavior. When confronted by a congregant re: the intended target of his article, he coyly responded: "If the shoe fits -wear it." Rav Schwab was out to make a point about something he opposed. He did not mean it to get personal, and certainly not ersonal in th PUBLIC domain.
As a personal pPolicy I have avoided politics from the pulpit. Why? As Spiritual Leader I feel that it dilutes my message as spiritual leader to get involved with politics. I didmake an exception when an obvious anti-Semite ran for City Council and I recommended that he be opposed for that very specific reason. As I see it [AISI] making only 1 exception in 16 year enhanced my "moral authority."
Simlarly, when the shenaigans of a recent Presdient of the USA who engaged in questionable moral conduct became the rage, I described in very general terms what was wrong and why it should be condemned. I named no names and just referred to a political leader who was involved in mis-behavior with an intern . Although it was quite obvious to whom I was referring, I avoided naming names.
I feel that personalizing the attack by naming names dilutes the message. And frankly, I am not sure if the aforementioned politician behaved significantly worse than many of his colleagues. Instead I attacked this overall lack of morality but kept his name out of it. Furthermore - other than this mis-behavior - I really had no personal animus to the guy, and there were probably other politicians that I liked even better who may have even done worse. So why go into name calling?!
OTOH, I ccannot condone the behavior. To my mind, it was to me clearly reprehensible and that a statement was called for. I framed it to be more as a teaching rather than preaching by pointing out a moral lesson in that Parsha that was on topic. By presenting the Torah point of view first, and then following up with a tangential reference to the behavior, I feel that I got my point accross without making it into a personal attack. Personal attacks carry with them an animus that I feel undermines the message.
Another Illustration:
Some prominent members of my former congregation were suspicious of a prospective convert. Without confronting any individual I taught a class on the Aggadita concerning Hillel and the 3 propsective Roman converts. I'm not sure if all of my targeted audience made the connection, nevertheless I felt I had disabused many of some highly erroneous notions about potential
Geirei Tzedek. Had I resorted into some kind of peronal attacks I would have triggered a certain lose-lose situation.
BEH, I will follow up with some illustrations of Ad Hominem attacks that I deem as mis-guided and counterproductive!
Shana Tova!
RRW
Geirei Tzedek. Had I resorted into some kind of peronal attacks I would have triggered a certain lose-lose situation.
BEH, I will follow up with some illustrations of Ad Hominem attacks that I deem as mis-guided and counterproductive!
Shana Tova!
RRW
1 comment:
I just wish to echo and endorse Rabbi Wolpoe's words. Yasher koach to him for making this statement.
Ad hominem attacks may be enjoyable, may further a spirit a victory -- but they do not serve Torah discussion and debate. The focus is the issue and the ultimate victory is only in the acquisition of the truth.
I believe in heated arguments to find the Torah the idea -- and indeed this process must be passionate. But the focus must be on Torah. In a certain way the combatants must recognize that really their fighting for the same thing -- Torah truth. Ad hominem attacks take us away from that. We seperate ourselves and place our personal honour in the way of Torah truth. Of course, the one insulted is going to defend himself/herself. Of course the one who made the insult is going to feel overly good about himself/herself. What is lost is the very purpose of the argument --the idea.
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