Originally published 5/31/07, 4:25 PM, Eastern Daylight Time
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Given #1:
There is a Minhag to learn Mishna at a Shivah. One of the reasons given is that the words "Mishna" and "Neshama" have the same letters.
Given#2:
There is a prohibition for the "aveil" Mourner to learn Torah during the Shivah period.
Dielmma:
How can one teach Mishnah to the visitors [menachamin] as per #1 without violating #2?
Note: There are several possible approaches to resolving this conflict.
Here is an elegant answer that came to me mostly through Divinely inspired serendipity.
The Mishnah on Elu Megalchin (Mo'ed Qatan: 3) discusses Aveiluth. The Rambam's commentary on the last four Mishnayoth forgoes explaining these Mishnayoth, and proceeds to provide a form of "Kitzur Hilchoth Avieluth." Now, by avoiding "analytical learning" and focusing upon "halachah p'sukah" - the Rambam's commentary provides us with a combination of Mishnah learning with a permitted topic. This is because aveilim are permitted to learn Hilchoth Aveiluth.
If I had the power to implement this Minhag universally, I would suggest this: Study those last four Mishnayoth of Mo'ed Katan with the Commentary of the Rambam; thereby avoiding the conflict inherent in the two "givens" above. Plus, it will certainly raise awareness of an area of Halachah that is rarely learned in depth anyway.
When feasible, I bring photocopies of these Mishnayoth to the Shiva and use them as a text.
Sometimes, you can be "Yotzei yedei sheneihem" [fulfill both opinions] without having to bend over backwards.
Kol Tuv- Best Regards,
Rabbi Richard Wolpoe
RabbiRichWolpoe@Gmail.com
The Mishnah on Elu Megalchin (Mo'ed Qatan: 3) discusses Aveiluth. The Rambam's commentary on the last four Mishnayoth forgoes explaining these Mishnayoth, and proceeds to provide a form of "Kitzur Hilchoth Avieluth." Now, by avoiding "analytical learning" and focusing upon "halachah p'sukah" - the Rambam's commentary provides us with a combination of Mishnah learning with a permitted topic. This is because aveilim are permitted to learn Hilchoth Aveiluth.
If I had the power to implement this Minhag universally, I would suggest this: Study those last four Mishnayoth of Mo'ed Katan with the Commentary of the Rambam; thereby avoiding the conflict inherent in the two "givens" above. Plus, it will certainly raise awareness of an area of Halachah that is rarely learned in depth anyway.
When feasible, I bring photocopies of these Mishnayoth to the Shiva and use them as a text.
Sometimes, you can be "Yotzei yedei sheneihem" [fulfill both opinions] without having to bend over backwards.
Kol Tuv- Best Regards,
Rabbi Richard Wolpoe
RabbiRichWolpoe@Gmail.com