Monday, 12 December 2011
Will New Jersey become the Mecca for North American Jewry?
Rutgers recruiters target Jewish high schools around the country, he said.
"We now have students active in Hillel from California, Massachusetts, Texas, Florida, Ohio — and we actually are now getting a lot of students from Israel and even students from Europe and Latin America." ...»
Rutgers builds reputation as Jewish destination | New Jersey News | NJJN
http://njjewishnews.com/article/statewide/rutgers-builds-reputation-as-jewish-destination
* Rutgers is the Official State University of NJ
Shalom,
RRW
Sunday, 11 December 2011
Declaration Against Same Sex Marriage Ceremony
printed a Declaration, signed by 100 Orthodox rabbis (an my understanding is that more have now signed it) declaring emphatically that this action has nothing to do with Orthodoxy and an offense to Orthodox principles and values. See http://www.algemeiner.com/2011/12/05/100-orthodox-rabbis-issue-same-sex-marriage-declaration/
I am proud to say that I am one of the rabbis who signed this document.
However, that is not the end of the story. This week, I received a phone call from a reporter at the Forward informing me that they went through this list of rabbis and also the list of those who signed the "Statement of Principles on the Place of Jews with a Homosexual Orientation in

Our Community" (see http://statementofprinciplesnya.blogspot.com/) and they found only one rabbi on both lists -- yours truly. They wanted to know why I signed both lists and also why there were no other rabbis who overlapped.As followers of the blog know, I expressed some regret in signing the Statement but specifically because of the way it was, I believe, misinterpreted. See http://nishmablog.blogspot.com/2010/08/u.html and http://nishmablog.blogspot.com/2010/08/media-misinterprets-meaning-of.html. In essence, though, I agreed with basic substance of the Statement as I did with the Declaration -- and so had no difficulties responding to this reporter's questions. The answer was really very simple, and the reporter understood this -- there was no contradiction between the Statement and the Declaration. To read further about this. I invite you to read the Forward article at http://www.forward.com/articles/147684/
Rabbi Ben Hecht
Saturday, 10 December 2011
Jews, Israelis and Zionists: Thoughts about a Discontinued Ad Campaign
From Guest Blogger: DOUGLAS ARONIN
Friday, 9 December 2011
When to Omit Birkat Me'ein Sheva [Magein Avot]?
1. At Rav Shimon Schwab zt"l's private minyan in his apartment on Friday Night, he had them omit "Magein Avot"
- supposedly because when he was absent, the Minyan did not convene.
2. I've heard that in many summer bungalows that they DO recite it, even though there is no minyan there year 'round
3 In Teaneck - There are TWO private Minyanim nearby for Friday Night
A. One is for a person with a disability. There, Magein Avot is omitted
B The other is a Carlebach Minyan in a private home There, they do say it despite the fact that about once a month they daven elsewhere.
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What are the proper parameters here?
Someone on Davening Discussions suggested that this is a "judgment call"
Shalom,
RRW
Thursday, 8 December 2011
Vayishhlach: Binyamin: A Definition of Youth
This week's parsha is Vayishlach and the topic is the concept of na'ar. We invite you to look at an article on this topic at http://www.nishma.org/articles/insight/spark5756-6.html
Wednesday, 7 December 2011
Can a Divorcing Couple Remain "Friends"?
I nodded in a manner that indicated this was indeed my question. The response was one I quote often:
"We are really good friends. We are just a lousy husband and wife." ...»
Why Does Gittin Precede Kiddushin? A Plea for Divorce Ethics »
Matzav.com - The Online Voice of Torah Jewry
http://matzav.com/why-does-gittin-precede-kiddushin-a-plea-for-divorce-ethics#more-71727
Shalom,
RRW
Tuesday, 6 December 2011
JVO: Downloading
This post continues the weekly series on the Nishmablog that features responses on JVO by one of our two Nishma Scholars who are on this panel. This week's presentation is to one of the questions to which Rabbi Hecht responded.
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Question: I know many friends—honest, God-fearing people—who have no problem “stealing” entertainment in the form of illegal downloads. Why have we let our attitude toward this kind of theft become so permissive? Can we stop it? Should we? Or, as many people claim, since they wouldn’t have paid for the show/music in the first place, it’s not like anyone lost money on their download. What is right? What is the Jewish view?
Monday, 5 December 2011
Rooted in Tradition - Torah Responds to a "Sour" Economy
The same phenomenon has appeared in Jewish communities across the country, albeit most often in those with existing Orthodox populations already familiar with the gemach system. This institution, rooted in biblical and Talmudic teachings and whose name is a contraction of the Hebrew words for "bestowal of kindness" ("gemilut chasadim"), is now meeting needs created by such resolutely modern causes as subprime mortgages, outsourcing and credit default swaps.»
NYT: Gemach Offers Loans Without Profit
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/03/us/a-traditional-jewish-loan-program-helps-ease-pain-of-tough-economic-times.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=gemach&st=cse
For Mobil Devices:
http://mobile.nytimes.com/2011/12/03/us/a-traditional-jewish-loan-program-helps-ease-pain-of-tough-economic-times.xml
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I grew up in a shul that hosted such societies - some were known as "oxies" whatever that means.
Also, my Dad's company had its own Federal Credit Union which offered low-cost loans to its members based upon the same premise of mutual help.
Shalom,
RRW
Sunday, 4 December 2011
Baruch Dayan HaEmes: Cantor Macy Nulman z"l
CANTOR MACY NULMAN, z'l
Former Director of the Philip and Sarah Belz School of Jewish Music at Yeshiva University, a Founder of the Cantorial Council of America, a pioneer in Cantorial and Jewish music education and author of numerous books and journals on Jewish music and liturgy. »
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B"H I attended quite a few courses at the Belz school over the years. Cantor Nulman was a consummate professional and helped to raise the Modern Orthodox "cantorate" to a higher level of professionalism. His book "The Encyclopedia of Jewish Liturgy" is a great quick reference guide for us.
While I only chatted with him a few times -- most of his influence on me was indirect -- he, nevertheless, will be missed as a mentor.
To his family, Hamakom Y'nachem ....
Shalom and Regards,
RRW
Saturday, 3 December 2011
Mussar: Let's Face It! - Quick Internet Mussar
Face the Book!
See
http://uberdox.blogspot.com/2011/11/great-mussar-for-me.html
Shalom,
RRW
Friday, 2 December 2011
Issur V'heter Overview in 3 Sections
Program
Goal: To Prepare Prospective Students in 3 areas of Issur V'heter Using "Classic Texts"
Note:
Each Overview stands on its own and does not require going further in order to grasp these concepts on a basic level
Each Session is assumed to be 90 minutes. No preparation is necessary, but review is indispensable
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Overview 1
Bassar b'Chalav
Sefer Minchat Hinuch - Mitzvot 92, 113
Rambam MT Ma'achalot Assurot Ch. 9
4-6 sessions
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Overview 2 - M'lichah
SA YD 69- 78 with Be'er Hagolah, Ba'er Hetev
Hochmat Adam 43 with Yad Adam
6-8 sessions
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Overview 3
Taaruvot of Hametz
SA O"Ch with Mishnah Brurah
442
447
467
7 - 9 sessions
Shalom and Regards, RRW
Thursday, 1 December 2011
Soviet Purges: Lenin vs. Stalin
Given that both Lenin and Stalin ruthlessly persecuted and purged, can we still compare and contrast their approaches?
The approach I took was to contrast NOT their degree of zealousness; after all the Cheka / Ogpu [Lenin] were as ruthless as the NKVD / MVD [Stalin]. What DID change? The targets of their zeal!
Lenin went after Czarists and "Whites" and other factions who opposed Bolshevism. EG Lenin was willing to overlook Trotsky's personal history as a Menshevik because of his steadfast loyalty to the Bolshevik Revolution. Thus Lenin's "US" were the community of all good Bolsheviks and his "THEM" were all those opposed to Bolshevism
Stalin morphed the zealousness by turning internally onto Fellow Bolsheviks. Stalin's "US" were the community of all those who'd give their life for Stalin and his "THEM" were all those had an independent power base and could thus think and act on their own w/o Stalin
As a result, Trotsky, Kirov, Bukharin, Kamenev, Zinoviev, etc. Were all Bolsheviks in good standing, yet nevertheless were ruthlessly and brutally purged. Their goodstanding as Bolsheviks is testified to by the fact that most were posthumously rehabilitated - except for Trotsky.
Hopefully the Mussar here for US is obvious. How far to take "Kannaus"? Think about it.
Shalom,
RRW
Wednesday, 30 November 2011
Palestine's Grand Mufti - Nazi Collaborator
I highly suggest seeing this episode.
For more info:
Controversy-laden "Nazi Collaborators" coming to Military Channel - Channel Guide Magazine
Shalom,
RRW
Tuesday, 29 November 2011
The Battle of the Tunnel - Part 2
Well it seems that the battle may be on for this year as well -- well at least the atheists have fired the first shot for this year. They have put up a billboard on one end of the Tunnel with a similar message to the one they presented last year. This year they have pictures of Neptune, Jesus, Santa Claus and the Devil with the question "What do you see?" It seems that they are trying to be a bit more subtle this year, not challenging everyone to be atheist but calling upon those church going people who secretly are atheists to, figuratively, come out of the closet. Further on this, see
http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-706810?hpt=hp_bn2
The Roman Catholics have not responded yet as far as I know. If they do, I most likely would have the same dilemma as I had last year, effectively siding, in a certain way, more with the atheists than the Roman Catholics. Let's face it, in regard to this year's billboard, I would agree with the atheists putting Neptune, a divine Jesus, Santa Claus and a Christian presentation of the Devil, in the same category.
Rabbi Ben Hecht
Monday, 28 November 2011
The increasing chasm Amongst Jewish Factions
Daniel Gordis
A Tale of Two Funerals
http://danielgordis.org/2011/11/25/a-tale-of-two-f
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Comment:
I have long admired Abba Hillel Silver as a spokesman for Jewry, but I'm no fan of his "theology. I can say similar things about Z'ev Jabotinsky.
Certain leaders were imho good for our Nation, but not so good for our Religion. [And perhaps vice versa]
Shalom,
RRW
Sunday, 27 November 2011
Is Judaism a matter of what Rabbis say, or a matter of what Jews do?
See:
DOVBEAR: Oy Gay
http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2011/11/oy-gay.html?m=1
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To answer DovBear's question it's a combination of
Torah
Rabbis
Jews
The Zohar says "Yisroel v'raitto v'kudsha bkrich hu had hu"
Similarly, Halachah is also the product of an amalgam. Re: this specific issue, more later BE"H
Shalom,
RRW
Friday, 25 November 2011
Texts: Underrated Yet Classical
1. Midrashim in general. Midrash Rabbah in particular. Fortunately we often do get access to this via intermediate texts
2. The L'vushim. One of the very finest Halachic Codes has been largely neglected for centuries
3. R Hananel on Sha"s. To Rashi goes the first prize in Talmudic Parshanut. R Hananel probably is a close runner up and can be very user-friendly and occasionally highly informative
4. Perhaps the only major Rishon to miss the cut into Mikraot G'dolot is Rabbenu Bachayei al haTorah. He reviews Pardeis on the Humash, making distinctions between each approach
5. Tomer D'vorah. Better known in Kabbalistic circles, it still works in the realms of Mussar, Hashkafah, and Ahavat Yisrael
6. Siddur Avodat Yisrael by Seligmann Baer. One of the few gems admired in both Orthodox and non-Orthodox liturgical scholarship
7. Soncino Humash by Rev. A Cohen. Long overshadowed, first by the Hertz Humash then by the Artscroll Humash the commentary has a "Kitzur Mikraot G'dolot in English.
BE"H we can add more
Shalom,
RRW
Thursday, 24 November 2011
JVO: Thanksgiving 2
This post is part of a weekly series on the Nishmablog presenting the questions to which he responded and the answers that he gave.
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Question: Is there a special Jewish prayer that we can say at Thanksgiving dinner in commemoration that we were granted religious freedom in America?
Rabbi Wolpoe:
For example, one could recite one or both of the "Modim" prayers. Or the morning Modeh Ani prayer
My own favorite is Psalm 100 "Mizmor leTodah", a Psalm of Thanskgiving. In particular I enjoy Louis Lewandowski's awesome choral composition of same. It is a most inspiring way to express gratitude.
And following dinner as we recite the "Birkat Hamazon" the 2nd Blessing is based upon the theme of thanks - "Nodeh Lecha"
My in-laws "Did Thanksgiving" on the Friday Night Shabbat Dinner on the Day after the Secular Thursday. There is perhaps no more Jewish way to celebrate Turkey Day than by having it as a Friday Night Shabbat Feast
I hope these help
Happy Thanksgiving
RRW
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And here's a blog post on this theme
Making Thanksgiving into a Kiddush Hashem
« ...Kesher Israel Congregation (KI) in Harrisburg has found the perfect way to spend the day… They came up with the idea of providing a full Thanksgiving meal for those firefighters who would be spending Thanksgiving on call at the fire station rather than at home surrounded by family and friends. This novel idea resonated with the congregation...»
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Sources:
JVO Link
http://www.jewishvaluesonline.
NishmaBlog: Making Thanksgiving into a Kiddush Hashem
http://nishmablog.blogspot.
Thanksgiving Kiddush Hashem | Hirhurim – Torah Musings
http://torahmusings.com/2010/
Shalom and Regards,
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
JVO: Thanksgiving
This post is part of a weekly series on the Nishmablog presenting the questions to which he responded and the answers that he gave.
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Question:How can Jews bring Judaism into celebrating Thanksgiving?
For example, one could recite one or both of the "Modim" prayers. Or the morning Modeh Ani prayer
My own favorite is Psalm 100 Mizmor leTodah, a Psalm of Thanksgiving. In particular I enjoy Louis Lewandowski's awesome choral composition of same. It is a most inspiring way to express gratitude.
And following dinner as we recite the "Birkat Hamazon" the 2nd Blessing is based upon the theme of thanks - "Nodeh Lecha"
My in-laws "Did Thanksgiving" on the Friday Night Shabbat Dinner on the Day after the Secular Thursday. There is perhaps no more Jewish way to celebrate Turkey Day than by having it as a Friday Night Shabbat Feast
I hope these help
Happy Thanksgiving
Making Thanksgiving into a Kiddush Hashem
Thanksgiving Kiddush Hashem | Hirhurim – Torah Musings
http://torahmusings.com/2010/11/thanksgiving-kiddush-hashem/
Shalom,
RRW