1. We accept the Humra/Minhag of Qitniyyot
2. We are meiqil in all the "gray areas" because -
3. We are not Machmir on what is already a Humra.
To my leftist colleagues who wish to be m'vateil issur Qitniyyot, I say to them Al Titosh Torat Imecha [Chayyei Adam]
To my Machmir colleagues I cite this Chok Yaakov, that there is no need to be machmir on what is already a Humra.
The result? I get universally despised! :-)
Hag Kasher v'Samei'ach,